memorable event by Kala's of Nanded

memorable event by Kala's of Nanded

In Feb 2014 v were attending gala celebration of 60th B'day of my sister at Nanded , Maharashtra.

V were picked up from station and taken home first in a chauffeur driven car/s.We were welocmed with tilak , Aarti, shawl .....etc.. Then had lunch in  her new ( still work in progress) 3 story  bungalow. Then taken to their one showroom and v skipped visit to their another shop and rushed to river side , visited a temple and then on river side we had early dinner of different kind of PONK/ HURDA, herbal bhel, khakhara, and other uncommon varieties followed by games. Then v rushed to have darshan of Gurudwara. The laser show their was hair raising as reminded of great scrifices done by our great Sikh Gurus. We all  bowed my head in their memory and joined in saying bole so nihal sat shri akal. Last photo here shows the traditional rangoli welcoming us in to their house.

 Tejal , college friend of my sister Sushma jij and  her husband specially came down for this event from US . 40 year old friendship but maintained day to day .

Eldest sister the director in pharma co. And Pintu bhaiya the chief coordinator of event

different bhel 

fresh green chole etc 

dadi maa and Tejal didi 

Jijaji and Pratik 

Eligible bachelors hv knack of giving stylish photo shoots 

my younger sister the bhua bhatiji in fun mood and missing my bhatijas 

 Myself, my wife, son and daughter 

before entering gurudwara

 rangoli 

Mutha Bhabhi and Bhaisahab and family celebrating Rakhi altogather...

Bhabhi is a great loving, humble, simple person. To show her that we all love her too all mustered presence in full strength and affection and took her blessings on the occassion of Rakhi Celebration. 

May Bhabhi live long, healthy and active as ever for long and  give shade of her affection and blessing to all of us . And specially I can't forget ever ever ever her tasty Ladoos of Ghee, Gond and other traditional ingradients. 

Venue : Marigold Hall. 

Akar Jr. Rahul

Ready for going for stage show on B'day of Maharaj Amoghkirtiji

SC upholds Accident ends career, actress to get over 1cr compensation

Should I file appeal in high court for reasonable compensation for my beloved late father who was given peanuts by accident court. ......

SC upholds Accident ends career, actress to get over 1cr compensation

Dhananjay Mahapatra TNN 

New Delhi: After winning a beauty contest and acting in a few feature films, Rekha Jain was aiming for a successful career as an actress, but a car accident left her shattered. She developed permanent scars on her face, cutting short her career in films and her mother, too, died in the accident. 
A medical Board certified that she suffered 30% physical disability and a Sambalpur Motor Accident Claims Tribunal ordered Rs 23.5 lakh compensation — payable by the insurer of the truck that caused the accident on August 17, 2001. The HC reduced the compensation to Rs 14 lakh on the ground that she suffered only 30% disability.
But an SC bench appreciated her argument — that though the physical disability was just 30%, the accident disfigured her face and figure rendering her unfit to be an actress and depriving her of the earning that she was set to make.
Factoring in the loss of career, the bench enhanced the compensation to Rs 79.65 lakh with 6% interest from 2002 — when she filed the claim before the Tribunal. With simple interest for 10 years, the amount works out to Rs 1.27 crore. For her mother’s death in the accident, the apex court awarded Rs 10.62 lakh with 6% interest.
“For a film actress, the physical appearance particularly the facial features are very important to act in the films and in TV serials. It is in her evidence that on account of the accident her face was disfigured, she has put on weight and has become fat and therefore she is unable to perform the role as an actress in films in future,” the bench observed.

Aasman mein udane wale .......

I know u r all unlucky to have person like me in family who has no personality, no diplomacy, no smartness, no intelligence. 

But my god knows that my heart is clean. And I act instead of just being a commentator. 

A dacoit was told to say Ram ram Ram Ram but he being illiterate like me said mara mara ,mara but still got haven and lots of punya as he did so sincerely. Incidentally his family did not pull his shirt from behind and or did not keep commenting against him. Commenting repeatedly against a person shakes his confidence and scares him and he is not able to move an inch even at right time/ opportune time. 

Most often it is said trying / doing is better even if with less intelligence then being very smart and intelligent but doing nothing and expre like a fool for long  treat mecting world to perform for you and as per your dictates, expectations , ditto as you like. 

Note all those who expect others to change as per their whims only get frustrated in the last. 

Those who think  that they are very intelligent and can prevail upon others to dance to their tunes will get ditched one day as u can fool one innocent poor  like me for long or treat me like fool for long but the almighty will turn a table one day and make you fool and world will see. 

So my folded hand request is trust in your parent/s- Guardian , your spouse and even  if he is wrong but innocent then resultant/ outcome will be correct and beneficial to u but if u curse him and do right but god has power to turn the table and prove you wrong. 

So stop blame game, ill-treatment, insults, taunts and accept doings of your elder as PRASAD. For more see Maina Sundari from Jain Shastra. 

Also listen to .....Aasman mein udane wale .......

It is more enjoyable if u r in groups.

http://park.adlabsimagica.com/

Imagica a new first of its kind in India theme park has come near Mumbai.

It is more enjoyable if u r in groups.

So let us make a rule forever that when tickets rate are above Rs 100
/- then each one or if they are young their parents must contribute.
As I remeber we did it in goa water rides too. When there will be
soldier system then there will not be any hesitation for inviting
others. Frankness works better then evading our own folks.

Say if I wants to go to residence of Vipresh then Vipresh must not be
burdened ( feel burdened ) as it will be clear that all direct expense
on travel tour medication entertainments show tickets will be born by
me.

Hope all will agree.I thinkl maa daddy were never invited for even a
day by any one as many felt they will be burden ( economically and
atithya wise)

By the way we are able to spend so much on friends and society for
status but have some hesitation on attending our own. Specially we
find some one may be less capable money or health wise.

We could have had atleast few yatras, tours, visits to each others
place if things were clear and healthy.

rather I have seen the giftings are also predecided and made a rule in
many families and is fixed amount so that comparisions and competions
and illfeelings are avoided.

Lets join hands , enjoy life with oldi like me as one family and let
children also come togather.

Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya,
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