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Friday, August 10, 2012
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Friday, July 27, 2012
My father Shri Bhanwarlalji Tholiya
My father Shri Bhanwarlalji Tholiya (Age 89 years) left for his
heavenly abode @ 2.30 am on 29th June 2012.
He last attended his office on 26th June 2012.
He was born in a small
village known as Nimaj and married to Mallibai Patni alias Saroj Tholiya
daughter of Jamindar and Sarpanch Late Nathamalji Patni of Anandpur Kalu, His
Nanihal was in Kataria family, Narena all in Rajasthan.
Due to conditions like drought
his father wanted him to give up
studies when he was in 9th standard and stopped sending him fees.But he started doing part time and tutions and started earning to pay his one fees . He went all the way to other state to Kanpur for
higher studies and around 1947 came to Mumbai where initially he lived
in a small room below staircase without light. So he did his LLB by
studying at railway platform on a bench below light as day time he was
working in a bank.
studies when he was in 9th standard and stopped sending him fees.But he started doing part time and tutions and started earning to pay his one fees . He went all the way to other state to Kanpur for
higher studies and around 1947 came to Mumbai where initially he lived
in a small room below staircase without light. So he did his LLB by
studying at railway platform on a bench below light as day time he was
working in a bank.
As most of you know he
continued to study for years and was B.com, LLB, ICWA, CAIIB, Dip. in Business
Management ( Bajaj Institute), Sanskrit Visharad.
He started his carrier with
a bank and then joined a insurance company
and lastly he was general Manger of a textile Mills of Seksaria
Groups. About 40 years back he started his own practice as Cost Accountant and Company
Secretary.
He was cost auditors and cost consultant for Hindalco, Indian Smelting, Andhra Paper Mills, Dhutpapeshwar, Hind Cycles, Digvijay Cements, Ajanta Paper Mills Balkrishna Synthetics, Siyaram Silk Mills, Ipca Laboratories, Stirlite group and hoards of other limited companies of which I do not
recollect his name.
He was cost auditor for Siyaram Mills and Balkrishna Synthetics since 1 st year
of its Inception 35 years back and continued till his death. Daddy’s nature and memory was severally affected since last few years due to a bad head injury caused in a road accident. But the people behind this great company are so human, compassionate and enlightened that inspite of all odds they showered all love, and respect on Daddy and continued association with him.
and lastly he was general Manger of a textile Mills of Seksaria
Groups. About 40 years back he started his own practice as Cost Accountant and Company
Secretary.
He was cost auditors and cost consultant for Hindalco, Indian Smelting, Andhra Paper Mills, Dhutpapeshwar, Hind Cycles, Digvijay Cements, Ajanta Paper Mills Balkrishna Synthetics, Siyaram Silk Mills, Ipca Laboratories, Stirlite group and hoards of other limited companies of which I do not
recollect his name.
He was cost auditor for Siyaram Mills and Balkrishna Synthetics since 1 st year
of its Inception 35 years back and continued till his death. Daddy’s nature and memory was severally affected since last few years due to a bad head injury caused in a road accident. But the people behind this great company are so human, compassionate and enlightened that inspite of all odds they showered all love, and respect on Daddy and continued association with him.
He was strict Gandhian to the core and had struggled all his life due
to his simplicity, hard work, honesty and dedication.
Since 9th standard he earned his on money and till death he did so
without touching his fathers money or son's money for entire of his
life.
He remained happy being a
tenant in building bought by
his father and subsequently co-owned by others in family. He has paid
rent for his one room till June 30th 2012 and never wanted anything
more then that in his life time.
While in his youth and as senior executive he was wearing suit etc but
at home he wore only Khadi
his father and subsequently co-owned by others in family. He has paid
rent for his one room till June 30th 2012 and never wanted anything
more then that in his life time.
While in his youth and as senior executive he was wearing suit etc but
at home he wore only Khadi
He was strong lover of Hindi
language and felt Hindi can unite our countryman and worked vehemently to
promote same.
However he had great command over English and
was
lecturer and visiting faculty for leading engineering college VJTI,
Mumbai for years. For years he was paper setter and examiner for
Institute of Cost and Works Accountant. He was several times elected
member of council of ICWA and other organisations.
lecturer and visiting faculty for leading engineering college VJTI,
Mumbai for years. For years he was paper setter and examiner for
Institute of Cost and Works Accountant. He was several times elected
member of council of ICWA and other organisations.
He did not want to trouble anyone,
take any help and did not want to over use any facilty so refused pick up
service and always preffered public transport. He never asked me to pick or
drop him at airport which is just 2 KM from my house. He never accpted any
flowers, falicitations and gifts.
He did not accept even a shirt piece as gift
from my in laws. My in
laws insistingly gave some gifts to me in my marriage and out of which only
cooking range was kept in the room of my dad as kitchen was attached
to his room. He stopped eating food when he realised that this range
has come in my marriage from my father in law. He only ate food cooked
on this range when he paid its price to my papa in law who had no
choice but to accept same.
My mother had never entered a school and hardly had learnt to sign (
there was no system to give education to girls in those days. But he never made her feel
that he was such a scholar and she did not even go to primary school. Their pair was like a
spiritual love birds and hardly lived without each other.
laws insistingly gave some gifts to me in my marriage and out of which only
cooking range was kept in the room of my dad as kitchen was attached
to his room. He stopped eating food when he realised that this range
has come in my marriage from my father in law. He only ate food cooked
on this range when he paid its price to my papa in law who had no
choice but to accept same.
My mother had never entered a school and hardly had learnt to sign (
there was no system to give education to girls in those days. But he never made her feel
that he was such a scholar and she did not even go to primary school. Their pair was like a
spiritual love birds and hardly lived without each other.
Dignity to old and women are virtues witch I
learnt from
him.
One client said I have only limited white money so I will only be able to pay 40% in white and rest in cash. He asked him to pay only white 40% as he could not accpt black money. Then he never made any tax planning and never did any any adjustemnts in books. And such hard earned money was wasted by paying heavy income tax of those years (above 80%) leaving nothing in hand. A common chartered accountant friend advised me that I must convince my dad to take tax benefits as he was paying more tax
then Amitabh Bachan. (This is incidence of 1975/76 or so).But those who know him must be knowing that he was Ironman and nothing could bend this Iron from his principles.
Parents above us are all whether umbrella and as I am facing rough weather in personal life I needed him most Now. Today there is a total vacuum above my head after his sad demise. At this juncture this personal loss could have affected me badly but for his spiritual teachings. Moreover the long list of well wishers and relations he built and left for us, and the Great Indian culture of joint family too gives me a security and comfort.
Finally, :
Occasion : UTHAMANA/ PRAYER MEETING
In memory of: Shri Bhanwarlal Tholiya
ON: Sunday 1st July 2012.
Time: 10.30 ( exact time when assembly will rise and leave for temple nearby)
Venue: Anand Ashram, 16Th Road, Khar west, near Maharashtra Co op
Bank, behind Camay Wafers, Khar Danda,
Advisory: park as per rule as toeing is common in that area.
Prefer train to Khar west and then all buses will take you to 16th
road Khar Danda.
Request: do not travel from too far or leave important work and
instead give that time to senior citizen or ailing who needs your
company and prey from where ever you are.
Yours,
Brother : Mahavir prasad
Bhabhi: Mrs Shakuntala Manakchandji Jain,
Son: Alok - Hema ,
Daughters: Purnima- Late Sushil Doshi, Sushama-Dharamchand Kala,
Pratima-Vijay Gangwal
Nephew: Ashok- Amita , Arun -Nina, Akhil-Shruti, Sanjay-Pushpa
Grand children: Pratik, Dr. Aksha
And entire Tholiya Family ( Nimaj / Santacruz)
His brother in Laws : Shantilalji, Sohanlaji,Champalji Patni ( Anandpur Kalu)
His Nanihal: Kataria Family from Narena ( Rajasthan)
him.
One client said I have only limited white money so I will only be able to pay 40% in white and rest in cash. He asked him to pay only white 40% as he could not accpt black money. Then he never made any tax planning and never did any any adjustemnts in books. And such hard earned money was wasted by paying heavy income tax of those years (above 80%) leaving nothing in hand. A common chartered accountant friend advised me that I must convince my dad to take tax benefits as he was paying more tax
then Amitabh Bachan. (This is incidence of 1975/76 or so).But those who know him must be knowing that he was Ironman and nothing could bend this Iron from his principles.
Parents above us are all whether umbrella and as I am facing rough weather in personal life I needed him most Now. Today there is a total vacuum above my head after his sad demise. At this juncture this personal loss could have affected me badly but for his spiritual teachings. Moreover the long list of well wishers and relations he built and left for us, and the Great Indian culture of joint family too gives me a security and comfort.
In memory of: Shri Bhanwarlal Tholiya
ON: Sunday 1st July 2012.
Time: 10.30 ( exact time when assembly will rise and leave for temple nearby)
Venue: Anand Ashram, 16Th Road, Khar west, near Maharashtra Co op
Bank, behind Camay Wafers, Khar Danda,
Advisory: park as per rule as toeing is common in that area.
Prefer train to Khar west and then all buses will take you to 16th
road Khar Danda.
Request: do not travel from too far or leave important work and
instead give that time to senior citizen or ailing who needs your
company and prey from where ever you are.
Bhabhi: Mrs Shakuntala Manakchandji Jain,
Son: Alok - Hema ,
Daughters: Purnima- Late Sushil Doshi, Sushama-Dharamchand Kala,
Pratima-Vijay Gangwal
Nephew: Ashok- Amita , Arun -Nina, Akhil-Shruti, Sanjay-Pushpa
Grand children: Pratik, Dr. Aksha
And entire Tholiya Family ( Nimaj / Santacruz)
Wednesday, May 30, 2012
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Thursday, April 26, 2012
One of para of My will
---- Forwarded Message -----
From: Mr Alok Tholiya
To: "Jain, Akhil"
Cc: Arun Jain ; Tholiya Bhavan TB records gmail ; "ptholiya@yahoo.ocm" ; CA Pratima Gangwal Pune ; sushma kala ; Jain Purnimajiji Malad West ; Jain Ashok Nigeria MAIN ; Amita Jain Nigeria ; Dr. Aksha Main ; Pranay Gangwal Pune ; Vipresh Gangwal USA ; Rajat Sangita Sogani Ajmer
Sent: Sunday, 16 October 2011 4:00 PM
Subject: Re: Meri na koi sunata na koi samajhata na koi karata
• Every event not all can reach. But atleast few to give company to sr citizens, and now when we have all settled down, struggle is over then why not spare some time for bed ridden/ sr citizen etc..
• In pvt trust out side contribution not allowed. Then it becomes public trust. Public trust can not give benefits to particular person or group. Hence My proposed trust will not and can not accept any contributions. However everyone can and should make small pvt trust first for themselves as there is no guarantee how when old will be taken care off, then for those who r dependents or on bed etc etc..
• A trust can be also made to pay for education, look after a property etc etc..
I have declared my wish as should anything happen to me when money arrives at that time some one from my share will implement my wish. As I see daily many depart holding some wish or other and dreams remain dream.
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya,
________________________________________
From: "Jain, Akhil"
To: Mr Alok Tholiya
Cc: Arun Jain ; Tholiya Bhavan TB records gmail ; ptholiya@yahoo.ocm; CA Pratima Gangwal Pune ; sushma kala ; Jain Purnimajiji Malad West ; Jain Ashok Nigeria MAIN ; Amita Jain Nigeria ; Dr. Aksha Main ; Pranay Gangwal Pune ; Vipresh Gangwal USA
Sent: Monday, 10 October 2011 12:57 PM
Subject: RE: Meri na koi sunata na koi samajhata na koi karata
Alok bhai,
Brilliant thought. We all desire this. I am sure you would have also considered geographic location of all family members – quite scattered – US , Singapore, Malaysia, Nigeria, Dubai, and also within India. Yes some will surely miss the fun……
On the 2nd resolution, again a very noble thinking on your part. Here again , once set up , I am sure there would be contributors to the cause.
I am on your side, bhai…….
Thanks & Best Regards,
Akhil Jain
Director
Structured Trade Finance (Corporate Finance) , MENA Region
Standard Chartered Bank
Phone: +971 4 5083040
Mobile: +971 50 6766567
Fonenet +4901 3040
Fax: +971 4 4282600
Email : Akhil.Jain@sc.com (Pleases note my new email address)
Address: Standard Chartered Bank,Building 1, 7th Floor, DIFC, P.O Box 999, Dubai, UAE
http://www.standardchartered.com
From: Mr Alok Tholiya [mailto:tholiya@yahoo.com]
Sent: Sunday, October 09, 2011 10:17 PM
To: Arun Jain; Tholiya Bhavan TB records gmail; Jain, Akhil; ptholiya@yahoo.ocm; CA Pratima Gangwal Pune; sushma kala; Jain Purnimajiji Malad West; Jain Ashok Nigeria MAIN; Amita Jain Nigeria; Dr. Aksha Main; Pranay Gangwal Pune; Vipresh Gangwal USA
Subject: Meri na koi sunata na koi samajhata na koi karata
I have been ( I am not praising my self rather feel like crying ) always insisting that all siblings of Hema assemble for few days when Nana nani were here. But everyone found excuse ( may be genuine) , thought of each others inconvenience etc etc. So it only when Nana departed that Hema and her sis and bro stayed together for 15 days!!!!!!
But the departed soul never ever saw all of them together for even 5 days.I think only in Akshus marriage we were all together but then that was a time when seniors and children get side lined due to other pressures.
worst happens when the departing sees that they r not united and are not sure that behind them things will be OK. Cant all survivors / youth / children spare 3 to 4 days , reassure parents that we r all made of each other and will be always united.
I propose 2 resolutions for myself :
1. Host a Diwali get together of 3 days so every one of us are here. I will foot all the ill but place, time and venue ( good place where we can all live together ( say Khanvel or a Devlali , or aggarawal ashram at Lonavala or Alibaug birla sanatorium or TB itself) . Can we all live like that for 3 days ...just 3 days where daddy and J B Nagar mummy are there with us and we don't combine any other occasion with that , Sushamajiji no shopping and like wise and be only together ( some may miss out but at least those who can must)????
2. As and when I get money ( from the any of the property) I will take out some money say Rs. 50 lacs from my share for the purpose of medical care of all family members for life time.
• Group A =( each and every paisa for medicine, care, equipment, hospitalization,attendant, maid,cook,travel (in sickness,diapers, operations, surgeries, old aged home, modification of toilet,vehicle etc etc)
1. B L Tholiya and his children (4),
2. Alok Tholiya, his spouse, children (2) and their spouse and their children.......
• Groups B: Necessary medical treatment, hospitalization, surgeries expenses in case of critical illnesses or as requested in Part or full as per the expenses of trustees of private trust. capital amount can be broken for group A and other group from interest from capital. However trustees can decide to break capital if situation demands.
1. Mrs Gangwal ( Amma) Ahmadabad
2. Spouses of my sisters and their children
3. Mrs Shakuntala Jain (1) and her children (3) with spouses(3)
4. parents in law of Pra and Ak
5. Mrs Premlata Jain (1)
6. Shri and Smt Mahavir Tholiya(2)
7. Old loyal staff like Madhavi Lad ( Sandhya)
8. Mrs and Mr Rajat Sogani
9. Mrs and Mr Sanjay P Jain and Vanshika
10. Mrs Puja Jain
11. Vipresh, Pranay, Sakshi
12. Shri Vaibhav Dharnidharka
13. Shri D C Jain
14. Ad. Shamim Dalvi
Group C: Some contribution only from interest earned can be given on recommendation of members of group A. distant relatives, staff,well wishers, neighbors, helpers, temple staff etc ..
• Of course system of gradation ( pl. do not mind ) will be there for benefits but ultimately for critical illness all will be covered. This is a rough points but is definitely for creating a record should anything happen to me ...
Now why I am writing this. Big show?????? No... We all desire to do some thing but leave suddenly without proper paper work / wish declared / without preparing will so finally your wish dies with you. Or chances are that one suddenly becomes so much ill ( like I am fast loosing memory and sure it is dementia) and then in sickness no one can ever execute his desire. So it is not early. I am forwarding this to Ad Jalan who can draft it legally and send back.
However as made clear above trust will take shape only when money comes thru first transaction of any one building.
Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya,
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