to send the child to hostel or not......Alok Pranay and Vips sharing the views

On Fri, May 23, 2014 at 5:21 AM, sushama kala <sushama.kala@rediffmail.com> wrote:

Sakshi is joining Jain International School, Hyderabad in Commerce stream She is joining from 17 
June, 2014.

From Alok : <tholiya@hotmail.com> wrote:

If child is not around there is more fights in house. 

If child does not get used to hostel they become depressed.

If they become used to they forget parents and then unable to take care of them in old age.

If child r still less matured then they can pick all bad from other students. 

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dear mamaji,

Mumbai is filled with opportunities, good education, good career and good life style. Having studied in Jalgaon, Kota, Pune and Los Angeles, I can say that there is really a difference in the opportunities and resources. 

I am lucky that mummy, you all supported me all the way. I would encourage everyone to stay away from home in a hostel for a few year at least in their lives. It just adds a lot of experience and confidence and life lessons to anyone's belt.

Thanks for helping me at each step of my life.

Vipresh

Vipresh Gangwal	May 23 (2 days ago)
to Alok, sushama, Pranay, Dr, hema, CA, Purnimajiji, Pratik

Respected mamaji,

I have some comments on your remarks,

If child is not around there is more fights in house. 

That is a very selfish reason to limit the opportunities for the child.

If child does not get used to hostel they become depressed.

If a child gets depressed, the parents and family must give them support to get over it an once they get used to hostel they are confident and ready to face the world. they make friends that will last forever. They learn about different kind of people.

If they become used to they forget parents and then unable to take care of them in old age.

If they go out, pursue better careers, they will have more resources to care for old parents. Just because a kid gets exposed to more of the world, they will not forget their parents.

If child r still less matured then they can pick all bad from other students. 

Yes, true. But one can pick up bad habits at home too. Try your best to protect the children but you wont always be able to do that. Someday they will have to face the world. So you are the best judge if the kid is matured enough to make the right decisions.

PRANAY GANGWAL	May 23 (2 days ago)
to Alok

If child has a good mamu he/she can become Pranay and Vipresh