Mutha Bhabhi and Bhaisahab and family celebrating Rakhi altogather...

Bhabhi is a great loving, humble, simple person. To show her that we all love her too all mustered presence in full strength and affection and took her blessings on the occassion of Rakhi Celebration. 

May Bhabhi live long, healthy and active as ever for long and  give shade of her affection and blessing to all of us . And specially I can't forget ever ever ever her tasty Ladoos of Ghee, Gond and other traditional ingradients. 

Venue : Marigold Hall. 

Akar Jr. Rahul

Ready for going for stage show on B'day of Maharaj Amoghkirtiji

SC upholds Accident ends career, actress to get over 1cr compensation

Should I file appeal in high court for reasonable compensation for my beloved late father who was given peanuts by accident court. ......

SC upholds Accident ends career, actress to get over 1cr compensation

Dhananjay Mahapatra TNN 

New Delhi: After winning a beauty contest and acting in a few feature films, Rekha Jain was aiming for a successful career as an actress, but a car accident left her shattered. She developed permanent scars on her face, cutting short her career in films and her mother, too, died in the accident. 
A medical Board certified that she suffered 30% physical disability and a Sambalpur Motor Accident Claims Tribunal ordered Rs 23.5 lakh compensation — payable by the insurer of the truck that caused the accident on August 17, 2001. The HC reduced the compensation to Rs 14 lakh on the ground that she suffered only 30% disability.
But an SC bench appreciated her argument — that though the physical disability was just 30%, the accident disfigured her face and figure rendering her unfit to be an actress and depriving her of the earning that she was set to make.
Factoring in the loss of career, the bench enhanced the compensation to Rs 79.65 lakh with 6% interest from 2002 — when she filed the claim before the Tribunal. With simple interest for 10 years, the amount works out to Rs 1.27 crore. For her mother’s death in the accident, the apex court awarded Rs 10.62 lakh with 6% interest.
“For a film actress, the physical appearance particularly the facial features are very important to act in the films and in TV serials. It is in her evidence that on account of the accident her face was disfigured, she has put on weight and has become fat and therefore she is unable to perform the role as an actress in films in future,” the bench observed.

Aasman mein udane wale .......

I know u r all unlucky to have person like me in family who has no personality, no diplomacy, no smartness, no intelligence. 

But my god knows that my heart is clean. And I act instead of just being a commentator. 

A dacoit was told to say Ram ram Ram Ram but he being illiterate like me said mara mara ,mara but still got haven and lots of punya as he did so sincerely. Incidentally his family did not pull his shirt from behind and or did not keep commenting against him. Commenting repeatedly against a person shakes his confidence and scares him and he is not able to move an inch even at right time/ opportune time. 

Most often it is said trying / doing is better even if with less intelligence then being very smart and intelligent but doing nothing and expre like a fool for long  treat mecting world to perform for you and as per your dictates, expectations , ditto as you like. 

Note all those who expect others to change as per their whims only get frustrated in the last. 

Those who think  that they are very intelligent and can prevail upon others to dance to their tunes will get ditched one day as u can fool one innocent poor  like me for long or treat me like fool for long but the almighty will turn a table one day and make you fool and world will see. 

So my folded hand request is trust in your parent/s- Guardian , your spouse and even  if he is wrong but innocent then resultant/ outcome will be correct and beneficial to u but if u curse him and do right but god has power to turn the table and prove you wrong. 

So stop blame game, ill-treatment, insults, taunts and accept doings of your elder as PRASAD. For more see Maina Sundari from Jain Shastra. 

Also listen to .....Aasman mein udane wale .......

It is more enjoyable if u r in groups.

http://park.adlabsimagica.com/

Imagica a new first of its kind in India theme park has come near Mumbai.

It is more enjoyable if u r in groups.

So let us make a rule forever that when tickets rate are above Rs 100
/- then each one or if they are young their parents must contribute.
As I remeber we did it in goa water rides too. When there will be
soldier system then there will not be any hesitation for inviting
others. Frankness works better then evading our own folks.

Say if I wants to go to residence of Vipresh then Vipresh must not be
burdened ( feel burdened ) as it will be clear that all direct expense
on travel tour medication entertainments show tickets will be born by
me.

Hope all will agree.I thinkl maa daddy were never invited for even a
day by any one as many felt they will be burden ( economically and
atithya wise)

By the way we are able to spend so much on friends and society for
status but have some hesitation on attending our own. Specially we
find some one may be less capable money or health wise.

We could have had atleast few yatras, tours, visits to each others
place if things were clear and healthy.

rather I have seen the giftings are also predecided and made a rule in
many families and is fixed amount so that comparisions and competions
and illfeelings are avoided.

Lets join hands , enjoy life with oldi like me as one family and let
children also come togather.

Thanks and Regards,
Alok Tholiya,
9324225699

Guess who??

The nice and humble Dr Sushil Jain and family

It was a treat seeing Dr Sushil jain and bhabhiji dancing in sangit sandhya.  

Sudip , his son, Dr Surbhi and Pratik. 

Dr Sushil Jain is a very friendly and helpful person. Sweet and simple. These are photos taken in marriage function of his beloved daughter Dr Surbhi . 

Tholiyaji was one who faced my boss on equal terms ..Shri Mathuria

Daddy's Office and our virtues...

Daddy used 76, Bombay Mutual Building office, Fort, Mumbai 400001 for over 40 years. But on 13th day of his departure we vacated same without a single reminder or single paisa compensation. Forget compensation we even did not expect any thanks or appreciation for being so loyal and honest.
As a gentlemen to be a gentlemen is not a point to oblige someone that is a basic virtue and we have that.

It is a different story that as per daddy's record he has to receive some monies from different people which he gave as a temporary loan. But not a single paisa has come from any quarter.

Networking is best solution

 

 

My reply to one family member:

 

Networking is best solution and such mail circulated to all should normally yeild results.

I am suggesting some changes, weigh them and resend to me for circulation:

I am looking out for a Personal Driver on a monthly salary of around Rs. 10000/- per month (negotiable) for Maruti SX4 car currently.

1.Duty would be for 12 hours per day from 12 noon to 12 midnight initially for some time. Once the arrangement is in order then we might change the timings.
2.non-alcoholic.
6.Should have minimum 5 years of driving experience of big cars.
7.Preferably from in and around Andheri so that commuting in the night is not a major hurdle.
8.Shall have to undergo Police Verification Process as per Rules

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Further points raised by me:

Now pl.. note that we r not having any HR/ personel dept in pvt life so asking/ expecting others to throughly investigate, interview, go in detail willl be scaring them.

That is what we have to do. Even female members of family can assist you once u put responsibilities on her. And if u dont then :

1. U r rusting them

2. U r burdening urslf

3. U r not realisisn that khali dimag .........ghar so let all of them share responsibilities

4. Lot of family progress gets delayed because one person wants to do everything or one person is expected to do everything ( my case) rest only expect, do shopping, order, and then comment on what I do. Let us recreate team in our own family and captain remains captain and not tractor. And then comes the roll of joint family which is not only for eating togather or assembling at functions in expensive clothes to show one has become rich but to feel one and share pain and responsibilities and acknowledge good work done by some one.

I am not sure ( pl. never mind my outspoken attitude and mail copy to others but try and grab best) but it seems we make our wife, mother and children weak, dependent and not ready to face the world.

Mina is very educated and capable if had continued in university may be she would have reached enviable position, Rasana is dynamic and mummy is from present modern world who has seen more countries then all of us have. but we have kept them all in cocoon.

They can be your extended arm but u hv to leave few things on them and must hv confidence on them. Besides finally as per dadaji " if u make mistakes then put in your akkal khata / debit to your learning account".

Let ppl. come for interview at fix time and two of these ladies can do it and after one or two round can send for final decision to you.

Give underneath guide lineds to female members for first round and finally you should decide from their selections:

Letter / mail from family members:

On Fri, Jan 4, 2013 at 10:58 PM, <Rakesh> wrote:

salary of around Rs. 10000/- per month (negotiable) for Maruti SX4 car currently.

Bonus. leave, travelling back home in night, over time etc.???????? Find market position and include here.

1.Duty would be for 12 hours per day from 12 noon to 12 midnight initially for some time. Once the arrangement is in order then we might change the timings.
2.Should be clean and well behaved / well mannered / soft spoken and preferably consumer of tobacco in any form.
Non alcoholic must as alcoholic can turn in to petty to big criminals anytime and u cant fight a alcoholic. His friend circle will be also bad as they r not party drinkersbut habitual .

3.Should be efficient in Driving and not be very fast / rash.
4.Shall have to wash the car daily. I hv not seen any driver daily washing car? Find out.

and ensure in keeping the car clean at all times.Yes.and can wash car one of the days when car washman does not turn up.
5.Shall have to help in carrying my handicapped son from home to car and back and also take care of him whenever he is left behind in the car by us.
6.Should have minimum 5 years of driving experience of big cars.Even two years of accident free is good enough.
7.Preferably from in and around JB Nagar, Andheri (East) area so that commuting in the night is not a major hurdle. PPl travel for job from Palghar, Dombivali etc etc . So dont limit ur self but as y rightly said preferably.Only thing is if u delay too much then pay for auto in night.
8.Shall have to undergo Police Verification Process as per Rules.MUST>

Regards

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

and ensure in keeping the car clean at all times.N
5.Shall have to help in carrying my handicapped son from home to car and back and also take care of him whenever he is left behind in the car by us.
6.Should have minimum 5 years of driving experience of big cars.
7.Preferably from in and around JB Nagar, Andheri (East) area so that commuting in the night is not a major hurdle.
8.Shall have to undergo Police Verification Process as per Rules.

Regards

Rakesh

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On Fri, Jan 4, 2013 at 10:58 PM, <arun.k.jain@ril.com> wrote:

I am looking out for a Personal Driver on a monthly salary of around Rs. 10000/- per month (negotiable) for Maruti SX4 car currently.

1. Duty would be for 12 hours per day from 12 noon to 12 midnight initially for some time. Once the arrangement is in order then we might change the timings.
2. Should be clean and well behaved / well mannered / soft spoken and preferably non-alcoholic / consumer of tobacco in any form.
3. Should be efficient in Driving and not be very fast / rash.
4. Shall have to wash the car daily and ensure in keeping the car clean at all times.
5. Shall have to help in carrying my handicapped son from home to car and back and also take care of him whenever he is left behind in the car by us.
6. Should have minimum 5 years of driving experience of big cars.
7. Preferably from in and around JB Nagar, Andheri (East) area so that commuting in the night is not a major hurdle.
8. Shall have to undergo Police Verification Process as per Rules.

Regards

Rakesh